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sparkindarkness ([personal profile] sparkindarkness) wrote2006-11-30 02:30 pm

Random me update

Not been a around for a while because I'm working on that "work/life" balance thing.

Thanks to some, ummm courteous advice from my coven, I've figured out that I completely over-ordered my attempt to create work life balance. As my wonderful coven mate said "if you're FORCING yourself to do something "fun" then it isn't fun anymore - it's just more work." Which was true. I was reading books I didn't especially want to read, playing games I wasn't actually interested in playing and having DVD marathons of films I didn't want to watch. Go me.

So I've been spending a lot of time with quality beloved & me time. And a lot of not-so-relaxing but still fun beloved & me time.

I'm writing lots of little snippets but they're a bit disjointed so I will gather them back together and suddenly post a ream.


Oh and we had a Regency day. I like Regency days :) And lots of Munchhausen because of it.

So all is good. ahhhhh got to love that

[identity profile] baranduyn.livejournal.com 2006-11-30 07:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Balance is the trickiest thing ever, next to ice skating.

Yeah, when you realize you're doing things because 'people' think you should instead of YOU thinking you should...well, that's a mighty, mighty day.

[identity profile] sparkindarkness.livejournal.com 2006-12-01 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
ice skating is evil, it's hard and you fall over and it's cold and you look less than stylish

Give me balance any day.

Yup, doing what others think I should be doing and I think i should be doing but not what I want to do