You allow Ilatheril to say things without offering a counter. He does not understand and says things poorly.

All beings value privacy. We all need time alone. Especially the Sidhe, who at times need solitude in which to think and gather our incredible thoughts. Such privacy is given the value ti deserves by us.

Unlike the Unseelie, we respect other's needs and do not require the threat of force to dissuade us from irritating another.