Do you ever wonder if this is simply a case of "Methinks the gentleman protests too much?" and they're secretly hoping you *will* jump them? All the while arrogantly assuming you'd actually *want* to!

I think that's one of the things that confuses me most about gay-straight assumptions - people assume things like monogamy is impossible for a gay man or woman. But yet it's totally possible (maybe) for a straight man or woman, and we're talking about different orientations here, not different species! Anyway, I know what I want to say, I just can't say it tonight cos my brain is on holiday.

I will, however, say that if there is to be teh hot sweaty many-sex in your office corridor, then I want a ticket to watch. Tehehehe.